Cara, if you have changed you mind about the cupcake/cake thing, let me know...because I am becoming totally obsessed and want to be freed of it soon if you feel like going a different route.  Otherwise, it is a crazy sign from the wedding gods that Martha's February issue is a tribute to cupcakes.  And Kate, is lending me her gigantic tiered cupcake platter from her catering days that she said I could spray paint any color you wanted.  And I have some crazy fancy tricks that I won't share with you unless you want me to.  Also, I'm excited for the Maine hicks to get all girly in Seattle and unite with the rest of the bridal bitches.  Here's a small cake with cupcakes arrangement that is an option... not the actual style... just that fact that there is a cake with cupcakes...anyway.